Show Notes for Two Shrinks on the Farm Episode 6: Exploring the Agreeableness Factor: The Dilemma of Being Too Well-Adjusted

In this episode, Barb and Robyn dive deep into agreeableness—one of the five traits in the Five Factor Neo Personality Profile. They share personal anecdotes, dream interpretations, and sharp insights into the benefits and pitfalls of agreeableness, especially for smart, driven women and men navigating complex societal dynamics.

Topics Discussed:

• Farm Glam vs. Reality: Robyn’s stylish silver ski vest and Barb’s flannel life set the stage for their banter.
• Reflections on the Year: Robyn prepares to return to Arizona after 10 months on the farm, and Barb recounts finishing her book, The Psychology of Liberty.
• Agreeableness Unpacked: How being too agreeable can make bright women “too well-adjusted for their own good,” while also exploring its softer virtues—kindness, generosity, and modesty.
• The Perils of Compliance: From women sacrificing their dreams to the challenges of balancing agreeableness with leadership.
• Dreams with Lessons: Barb shares a vivid post-apocalyptic dream that taught her the importance of saying no.
• Tips for Balance: Why “No” is a complete sentence and how to approach situations that challenge your agreeableness without sacrificing your authenticity.
• Men and Agreeableness: A look at how societal norms shape the perception of agreeable men and why we need more “girl dads.”

Listener Invitation: Want to explore your own agreeableness? Robyn and Barb invite you to take the Neo Personality Profile with their guidance. Reach out to [email protected] for details.

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