In Episode 3 of Christian Bachelorette, Jayme shares how dating multiple people unexpectedly triggered her anxious attachment, revealing she wasn’t as healed as she thought.

She opens up about:

• Craving attention from men who gave her very little

• Abandoning herself through performing, pleasing, and proving

• Slipping into a masculine posture — offering to pay for dinners and trying to “make it happen”

• Battling anxiety through prayer and wise counsel while still repeating the same patterns

Everything shifted during a Christmas reading from Language for Letting Go by Melody Beattie, when she asked herself a powerful question:

“What do I actually want?”

Her answer: a kingdom partner to do real life with.

Jayme chose to stop abandoning herself.
The relationship ended painfully — but with gratitude.
The ones not meant for her fell away.

She recommends How We Love by Kay Yerkovich and Milan Yerkovich, and closes the episode anchored in Psalm 37.

Next episode preview: Peter Pan.