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3 // Are You Seeing Your Child, or a Problem to Solve?
If your child is having tantrums, talking back, refusing to listen, or acting “defiant”… what do you actually believe about them in that moment?
Do you believe they’re being manipulative? Strong-willed? Disrespectful?
Or do you believe they’re struggling?
In this episode of Raising Kids With Purpose, Adriane unpacks the hidden parenting beliefs that shape how you respond to toddler tantrums, power struggles, and teen attitude — and why mindset matters more than any discipline strategy.
In this episode, we’re chatting about:
• Where our beliefs about “difficult” or strong-willed children actually come from
• Why behavior is never the whole story (especially in defiant child moments)
• The difference between the problem lens and the curiosity lens
• One simple question that reduces power struggles and builds connection
Above the surface, you see meltdown, refusal, backtalk, shutdown.
Below the surface? Developmental limits, unmet needs, sensory overwhelm, lagging skills.
Same child, same moment, completely different outcome because of a mindset shift.
If you’re exhausted by constant power struggles or feel stuck in cycles with your strong-willed child, this episode will help you see what’s really happening and how to shift it.
✨ If this conversation encouraged you, subscribe and keep walking this journey with me.
Links Mentioned in this Episode:
Connect with Adriane:
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By Adriane ThompsonIf your child is having tantrums, talking back, refusing to listen, or acting “defiant”… what do you actually believe about them in that moment?
Do you believe they’re being manipulative? Strong-willed? Disrespectful?
Or do you believe they’re struggling?
In this episode of Raising Kids With Purpose, Adriane unpacks the hidden parenting beliefs that shape how you respond to toddler tantrums, power struggles, and teen attitude — and why mindset matters more than any discipline strategy.
In this episode, we’re chatting about:
• Where our beliefs about “difficult” or strong-willed children actually come from
• Why behavior is never the whole story (especially in defiant child moments)
• The difference between the problem lens and the curiosity lens
• One simple question that reduces power struggles and builds connection
Above the surface, you see meltdown, refusal, backtalk, shutdown.
Below the surface? Developmental limits, unmet needs, sensory overwhelm, lagging skills.
Same child, same moment, completely different outcome because of a mindset shift.
If you’re exhausted by constant power struggles or feel stuck in cycles with your strong-willed child, this episode will help you see what’s really happening and how to shift it.
✨ If this conversation encouraged you, subscribe and keep walking this journey with me.
Links Mentioned in this Episode:
Connect with Adriane: