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3 Questions That Expose What’s Really Breaking Your Marriage
If your marriage feels tense, chaotic, or emotionally unsafe, it’s not a “communication problem”… it’s a leadership problem, and that’s actually good news, because leadership can be learned.
In this episode of The Weaponized Marriage Podcast, Kendra and Dr. Ryan Hewitt unpack why your relationship can’t rise above your current “lid” of leadership, your emotional regulation, decisiveness, honesty, and ability to create safety at home. If you’ve been stuck in resentment, avoiding hard conversations about money, intimacy, or parenting, or you feel like you’re walking on eggshells around your spouse, this conversation will hit home.
You’ll discover why emotional safety comes before clarity, how a dysregulated nervous system can poison connection, and what it means for a man to “protect the peace” (beyond making money or being physically strong). Whether you’re trying to rebuild trust, restore intimacy, stop constant arguing, or lead your family with calm confidence, this episode gives you a real framework to create a marriage that feels safe, clear, and connected again.
You’ll Learn:
→ How leadership in marriage starts with nervous system regulation and the energy you bring into the home, not just what you do.
→ Why you can’t create clarity or have productive conflict when your relationship feels unsafe, and how resentment grows when one partner feels unprotected, or when the other feels unwanted.
→ Kendra shares a powerful “armor” and “belt of truth” metaphor for honesty without attack, and Ryan breaks down how tone, volume, and intensity can shut down emotional connection.
→ Finally, you’ll get the three questions to ask that expose where you’re avoiding responsibility and choosing comfort over growth, so you can raise your “lid” and lead your marriage to the next level.
Learn more about Kendra Hewitt by visiting the following links:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendra.hewitt/
Learn more about Dr. Ryan Hewitt by visiting the following links:
Dr. Ryan Hewitt Website: https://www.drryanhewitt.com/
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By Ryan and Kendra HewittIf your marriage feels tense, chaotic, or emotionally unsafe, it’s not a “communication problem”… it’s a leadership problem, and that’s actually good news, because leadership can be learned.
In this episode of The Weaponized Marriage Podcast, Kendra and Dr. Ryan Hewitt unpack why your relationship can’t rise above your current “lid” of leadership, your emotional regulation, decisiveness, honesty, and ability to create safety at home. If you’ve been stuck in resentment, avoiding hard conversations about money, intimacy, or parenting, or you feel like you’re walking on eggshells around your spouse, this conversation will hit home.
You’ll discover why emotional safety comes before clarity, how a dysregulated nervous system can poison connection, and what it means for a man to “protect the peace” (beyond making money or being physically strong). Whether you’re trying to rebuild trust, restore intimacy, stop constant arguing, or lead your family with calm confidence, this episode gives you a real framework to create a marriage that feels safe, clear, and connected again.
You’ll Learn:
→ How leadership in marriage starts with nervous system regulation and the energy you bring into the home, not just what you do.
→ Why you can’t create clarity or have productive conflict when your relationship feels unsafe, and how resentment grows when one partner feels unprotected, or when the other feels unwanted.
→ Kendra shares a powerful “armor” and “belt of truth” metaphor for honesty without attack, and Ryan breaks down how tone, volume, and intensity can shut down emotional connection.
→ Finally, you’ll get the three questions to ask that expose where you’re avoiding responsibility and choosing comfort over growth, so you can raise your “lid” and lead your marriage to the next level.
Learn more about Kendra Hewitt by visiting the following links:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendra.hewitt/
Learn more about Dr. Ryan Hewitt by visiting the following links:
Dr. Ryan Hewitt Website: https://www.drryanhewitt.com/
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices