What’s good, My Former Nice People!” this is Osei Daniels, hosting our next Kindness Speaks!. Welcome Back! Excited to share with you these life changing principles about Kindness!

It is great to back! This Podcast #9 of Kindness Speaks!

TODAY’S POWER QUOTE:

“Character is BOTH how you treat others and yourself with kindness”

Today’s Topic is:

3 Reasons why Being Nice is a character flaw

Just like a when we get a crack in our windshield, the longer we go without getting it fixed, the worse it gets, making driving difficult for you and to others by being a hazard on the road!

The same way that Being Nice is a character flaw. We cannot allow it to continue!

Points to Cover are:

1. Being Nice is a Subtle Form of Manipulation

1. I’m F.I.N.E, its Ok,

2. Using Flattery to get what you want

2. Truth is Avoided

1. Examples: Doing a poor job at work, recipe for dinner didn’t workout, someone

2. Not wanting to share the truth because we don’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings

3. Little White Lies…“is a well-intentioned untruth”

1. In our Upcoming Webinar, we’re going to break down HOW To share potentially harmful ‘truths’ to others in a kind way

3. Being Nice stifles maturity and growth and leaves everyone the exact same

1. When we do not want to BE part of the solution, then we leave others lacking of the needed truth, that they only hear well from YOU!

2. The truth is supposed to set us free! I’m not saying we IGNORE people’s feelings and we must develop a stronger discernment for WHEN to share things, and this takes practice but I’d rather us tell each other, friends and family, the truth, so someone outside our home doesn’t have to!

I have a New Years Challenge for everyone that is listening to this. I have created 12 Kindness Personal Affirmations that I believe will help us set the tone for us personally, to focus on determined self improvement and dynamic character development! Go to KindnessDefined.com and sign up for next week’s webinar, and I’ll send you the PDF for free! I’ll also be summarizing these 12 Affirmations beginning tomorrow morning, on instagram, follow us there @kindnessdefined

Thanks for listening. NEW YEARS BLESSINGS to you and yours for 2021 and remember:

NICE PEOPLE DO FINISH LAST BUT KIND ONES RISE TO THE TOP!

Let’s Go!