“You failed before, what makes you think can do it this time?

What makes you think you’re qualified?

Just stay in your comfort zone”

These voices came up today, after thinking of going to this networking event that I want to join.

And I noticed the voices starting to crawl under my skin, debilitating my confidence,

I started doubting my own abilities.

Then I find my rational mind coming up with reasons as to why I shouldn’t do the things, why I should just default to comfort,

“you don’t have time”,

“it’s too far”,

“you don’t have something big enough established”

Some similar stupid shit

Same thought came up the other day when I wanted to hold a marketing workshop.

My mind started telling me, what is it that I have to offer?

Had a talk with a friend to help me step out of fighting with my own voices, so here's a reminder to you that you are not your thoughts.

and here are 3 steps to start dancing with them instead of letting them debilitate your confidence.

Feel free to connect with me on @debbieeeyy, I would love to hear your perspective and thought, its social media so don't be afraid to be social with me ;)