When we have conversations about sexual and gender diversity we can quickly become emotional and defensive. We are often baffled how other people can think so differently than we do about these topics. Why is this? In this episode, I explore some of the psychological dynamics that can get in the way when we try to stay at the table and have constructive dialogue. This episode contains five shorter, related episodes and is for those who like to listen to a whole story in one go. The next five episodes break this topic into smaller parts for those who prefer to digest an idea before moving on to the next one.