What happens when you're consistently rendered invisible in your own conversations? Sam and her friend Asha unpack the frustrating and bizarre experience of being ignored or spoken over simply because of having a visible disability.

This raw conversation explores the psychological impact of having questions redirected to companions instead of being addressed directly. Sam shares how these everyday interactions make her question her worth and visibility in society, while Asha offers a unique perspective as someone who witnesses these exchanges firsthand. Together they navigate the complicated dynamics: when should friends intervene, and when might well-intentioned support actually reinforce harmful stereotypes?

Beyond just highlighting problems, this discussion reveals how unconscious bias manifests in multiple ways – from outright ignoring someone to the equally problematic behavior of excessive praise for ordinary activities. "It's amazing that you're out today!" might seem like a compliment, but actually reveals deeply held assumptions about disability and independence.

Whether you have a disability, know someone who does, or simply want to be more conscious of how you interact with others, this episode offers valuable insights. Sam and Asha don't just identify problematic behaviours – they suggest practical approaches for having better conversations about support and advocacy, and remind listeners that being nervous about saying the wrong thing is far better than avoiding interaction altogether.

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