-PhoenixSoul- is relatively new to the world of BDSM, but in the short time she's been on the scene has discovered a deep love of the lifestyle's ability to fuel her growth addiction. A lifelong commitment to understanding her deeper motivations behind her emotions and behaviors has fueled many of PhoenixSoul's writings. In this episode, she chats with Woody about her discovery of poly relationships, the difference between jealousy and envy and her writing group which dove into the "7 Deadly Sins" for October, which led to a series of hypothetical conversations with her mom. Phoenix' approach to BDSM (and life in general) is "look at what hurts, and why" to deepen self-awareness and growth.