Divorce can feel like a pressure cooker—emotions are high, stress is constant, and one wrong move can turn everything into chaos. In this episode, top Illinois divorce attorney Bobby Buchanan shares how to take control of the storm and choose diplomacy over drama in the crucial 90 days leading up to divorce.

Bobby explains why emotional regulation is the foundation of a smoother divorce process, how therapy can help you regain clarity, and what practical steps like organizing finances and managing communication can keep things from boiling over. You’ll also learn how to stay strategic, set realistic goals, and approach negotiations with calm and confidence.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How to manage your emotions and set the tone for a low-drama divorce
• Why therapy can be one of your best tools during the early stages
• What to avoid when it comes to venting—especially with kids or on social media
• Practical ways to prepare financially and get your paperwork in order
• How to handle texts, emails, and digital communication wisely
• The importance of focusing on the “big rocks” first to make real progress
• Why a solution-focused mindset can turn even stressful moments into opportunities

Whether you’re just beginning to plan or already deep in the process, this episode will help you move from reactive to proactive and design a post-divorce life you love.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Please consult a professional for legal guidance specific to your situation.

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