"Scripts for assorted boundary behavior: Saying No “I have other priorities, but I am sending good vibes for you to figure this one out.” “As you know, it’s my busy season at work. So, unfortunately, I won’t be able to help you out with the event.” “No, I’m sorry; I definitely can’t.” Interruptions “Can I please finish that story? Once I finish, I’m all ears for your story about Bob.” “When you interrupt me, it makes me feel like you’re not really listening. I would like to request that you stop.” Passive-Aggression Disguised as Teasing “That wasn’t funny to me, and I don’t appreciate it.” “Hey, you might be joking, and I am still telling you that I don’t like it and want you to stop.” - Terri Cole