We talk a lot about strategy, confidence, and visibility, but far less about the one skill that quietly determines how all of those things actually play out: clear, human communication.

Get ready for story time. In this episode Kim shares a hilariously uncomfortable personal experience that turned into an unexpected lesson about self-advocacy, assumptions, and the cost of not saying what we mean. 

If you’ve ever left a conversation wishing you’d just said the thing, this episode is a reminder that clear communication isn’t harsh or selfish; it’s one of the most generous skills we can build.

HIGHLIGHTS

The awkward (and unforgettable) story that sparked a deeper realization about communication

Why highly capable women often default to politeness over clarity

How avoiding small moments of discomfort creates bigger, longer-term friction

The hidden cost of assuming instead of asking

How clear communication builds trust faster than being easygoing ever will

Simple ways to start practicing directness without feeling harsh or out of place

MENTIONS & FOLLOW