ENGLISH:

What happens to intimacy in a time when so many people feel stressed, disconnected, and unsure?

In this episode of 34o, in Swedish, I’m joined by Kalle Norwald for a warm, honest and deeply reflective conversation about relationships, sexuality and human presence.

We explore why so many men struggle to understand their emotions and how that impacts intimacy and sex.
We talk about performance pressure, avoidance patterns, and how the balance between masculine and feminine energies often gets lost in modern relationships.
We also touch on pornography, shame, and why presence isn’t a technique, it’s a responsibility.

This is not an episode about quick fixes or easy answers.
It’s a conversation that slows things down.
That invites curiosity.
That reminds us that true intimacy often begins long before we take our clothes off.

An episode for anyone who wants to meet themselves and others, with more honesty and presence.

SWEDISH:

Vad händer med intimitet i en tid där många känner sig stressade, osäkra och ensamma?

I detta avsnitt av 34o möter jag Kalle Norwald i ett varmt, öppet och fördjupande samtal om relationer, sexualitet och mänsklig närvaro.Vi pratar om varför så många män har svårt att förstå sina känslor och hur det påverkar både intimitet och sex. Om prestationskrav, undvikande mönster och hur balansen mellan det feminina och maskulina ofta går förlorad i moderna relationer. Om pornografi, skam och varför närvaro inte är en teknik, utan ett ansvar.Det här är inte ett avsnitt med snabba svar eller enkla lösningar.Det är ett samtal som stannar upp. Som vågar vara nyfiket och som påminner om att verklig intimitet ofta börjar långt innan vi klär av oss.Ett avsnitt för dig som vill förstå dig själv och relationer på ett djupare plan.

In this episode of 34o, I’m joined by Lisa Näs, journalist and long-time writer on sex, relationships and intimacy for women’s magazines.

We talk about what happens behind the text:

- How do you write about sex without turning it into performance?

- Where is the line between honesty and exposure?

- What has changed, culturally and emotionally over the last decade?

Together we explore:

- Writing about intimacy with integrity and responsibility

- Why orgasm has become a performance metric and what gets lost because of it

- What topics were not written about 10 years ago (but are now)

- How language shapes safety, desire and self-image

Lisa’s most important relationship insights after years of interviewing sexologists and relationship experts

This is not an episode about techniques.It’s about trust, nervous systems, language and emotional presence. Because intimacy isn’t what we do. It’s how safe we feel when we meet.

Why do we long for closeness and feel fear when it becomes real?

Why can two people love each other deeply and still not be able to carry the same life?

In this episode of 34o, Henrik reflects on love as a timeless human experience, from ancient texts and literature to modern relationships and heartbreak. About longing, jealousy, vulnerability and the courage it takes to stay present when love asks more of us than we feel ready to give.

This is not an episode about blame or answers.

It’s about awareness.

About learning to pause instead of react.

About seeing both our light and our shadow and choosing how we love.

If you’ve ever loved deeply, lost something that mattered, or wondered why intimacy can hurt as much as it heals, this episode is for you.

Vera learned early how to read a room.

How to sense shifts.

How to stay alert, often more attuned to others than to herself.

In this episode, we explore the quiet presence of shame, the kind that doesn’t shout, but gently pulls the body away from desire, closeness, and rest. Shame around wanting. Around being seen. Around taking up space in intimacy.

Vera shares what it’s like to move between longing and withdrawal, presence and disappearance. To want connection and still feel the impulse to step back when things begin to deepen.

Mor joins the conversation, offering reflections and commentary that add another layer, naming patterns, softening judgments and holding space for what shame often silences.

This episode is about:

– how shame lives in the body

– how safety changes desire

– how intimacy isn’t created through performance, but through permission and how staying can sometimes be the bravest act of all

A conversation without urgency.

Without fixing.

Just honest presence, listening, and truth.

In the final part of Dance of Polarity, Henrik and Jonas explore healing - how we can release old conditioning around power, shame, and gender to rediscover desire as a bridge back to wholeness.

They talk about what it means to lead and to yield, to feel and to trust, and how masculine and feminine energy can co-create instead of compete.

To get in contact with Jonas and learn more about his work, please connect with him here: www.syntesa.se

A closing reflection on love, polarity, and becoming fully alive.

Maria’s story is about a woman who loved deeply, carried too much, and slowly disappeared inside a relationship where she was no longer seen. After years of silence, exhaustion and emotional emptiness, she chose to walk away, not from love, but from losing herself.

In this episode, we explore her journey back into desire, sensuality and emotional truth.

The lovers who awakened her body.

The man who finally met her with presence.

And the moment she realized she deserved more than survival.

Mor joins the conversation to reflect on shame, self-abandonment and the courage it takes for a woman to reclaim her voice, her pleasure and her life.

A story about returning to your body and choosing yourself without apology.

Stay open. Stay present. Stay human.

In this intimate conversation, Mathilda Ritzén and Henrik explore what modern love really requires beyond roles, expectations and performance.

We talk about self-love, emotional safety, feminine & masculine energy, attachment wounds, conscious communication and why being seen matters more than being desired.

A warm episode about presence, truth and real connection.

In the second part of Dance of Polarity, Henrik and Jonas explore what it means to integrate both the masculine and feminine within.

They discuss how safety, desire, presence, and surrender are interwoven - and how the real transformation happens when we stop suppressing one side of ourselves.

This episode dives into the heart of relational wholeness - the meeting of depth and freedom.

To get in contact with Jonas and learn more about his work, please connect with him here: www.syntesa.se

In this episode, Henrik meets Fehu – a somatic body psychotherapist, authentic mover, primal adorer and wildly feminine creature – for a deep conversation about responsibility, healing, and the energetics of love.

Together, they explore how nature, ritual, and body awareness can guide us from darkness into light, and why true intimacy begins when we take ownership of what we bring to the relational table.

Fehu speaks about the courage it takes to ask for help – from friends, therapists, or community – and how presence becomes the medicine that transforms both love and life.

This is a journey into embodied energetics, transformation, and daring to love with an open heart.

She’s 26. Strong, sharp, independent and tired of being the one who holds everything together.
Raised as her father’s right hand, Frieda learned to lead, decide, and achieve.
But in love, she longs for something else: presence. To be met, not managed.

Her partner wants sex. She wants depth.
And somewhere between hunger and heart, love begins to slip away.

Together with Britta Kunze, we explore what happens when self-sufficiency becomes a shield and how emotional safety, not perfection, opens the door to love.

Because to be loved, we don’t need to be perfect, just present.