In this episode, Steph explores the concept of performing in our lives and the impact it has on our well-being and fulfillment. She discusses the gap between our inner selves and the outer version we present to the world, highlighting the struggle and dissatisfaction that arises when this gap is large. The focus is on the kind of performance that feels out of alignment and drains us. She encourages listeners to examine where they may be performing in their lives and take steps to close the gap.