In this episode, Steph emphasizes the importance of two essential keys to having powerful impact: preparation and consistency. Using the metaphor of a train on tracks, she illustrates how these two elements serve as the essential rails guiding individuals towards their aspirations. The conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own practices and commit to doubling down on their intentions, especially in February, a month often associated with the abandonment of resolutions.

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In this episode, Steph talks about the concept of emotional intelligence, focusing on self-awareness and self-regulation. She emphasizes the importance of being able to name emotions in the moment and how this skill can enhance leadership and interpersonal relationships. The conversation highlights the distinction between understanding the 'why' behind feelings and the necessity of self-regulation during emotionally charged situations. Steph encourages listeners to practice naming their feelings and regulating their emotions to foster better communication and relationships.

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In this episode, Steph discusses the profound impact of our thoughts, language, and beliefs on our reality. Another connection to the "language of our life", she emphasizes how our internal narratives serve as predictions for our future, shaped by the reticular activating system in our brains. By understanding and shifting our self-talk, we can create a more positive and fulfilling life.

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In this episode, Steph explores the concept of duality, particularly in the context of modern life and relationships. In a world where we are often being asked to be ONE thing, she emphasizes the importance of understanding and embracing the gray areas between opposing forces, such as discipline and self-compassion, striving and surrendering. Drawing from Eastern philosophy, particularly the yin and yang concept, she illustrates how these dualities can coexist and complement each other, challenging the binary thinking prevalent in Western culture. The discussion encourages listeners to reflect on their own lives and find balance within the spectrum of their experiences.

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In this conversation, Steph discusses the challenges of maintaining healthy routines, sharing a personal story of how she has recently dropped the ball on one of her habits. She emphasizes the importance of RECOVERY... resetting after getting off track or falling into old habits. She breaks down what that recovery looks like: getting perspective, staying open, taking radical ownership and staying in solution energy. The conversation highlights the need to move beyond shame and guilt, focusing instead on progress and the positive impact one can have on their community.

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In this episode, Steph shares insights from a recent coaching intensive where she observed a powerful question being posed: "What do you want?" Despite its simplicity, many high-performing coaches struggled to articulate their desires, revealing a common challenge in the coaching community. Steph discusses the reasons behind this difficulty, including the tendency to prioritize others' needs over one's own, societal beliefs about deservingness, and the impact of people-pleasing tendencies. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing and articulating personal desires as a pathway to fulfillment and creativity. She introduces a practical exercise called the "100 Things List," challenging listeners to push past initial comfort zones and societal constructs in order to unlock insights about their true desires.

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In this episode, Steph talks about the concept of 'voting for your future self,' emphasizing the importance of embodying the identity of the person you aspire to be right now, rather than waiting for external milestones to define you. She discusses how our self-perception often hinges on future achievements, such as titles or personal goals, and argues that this mindset can hinder our growth, taking us out of the creative mode. By taking proactive steps to align our actions with our desired identities, we can prepare ourselves for the future we envision. Drawing on insights from James Clear's 'Atomic Habits,' Steph highlights that every action we take is a vote for the identity we wish to adopt, encouraging listeners to focus on the majority of positive actions rather than striving for perfection.

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In this episode, Steph talks about the concept of the 'scorecard'—a mental tally we keep in relationships that tracks perceived wrongs and rights. This invisible scorecard can lead to resentment, frustration, and a drain on our energy, ultimately obstructing our ability to create meaningful connections and achieve our goals. Steph emphasizes that keeping score in relationships positions us as opponents rather than teammates, which can be detrimental to our emotional well-being and productivity.

Steph outlines two major problems associated with the scorecard: first, that it creates a competitive dynamic where no one truly wins, and second, that it fosters 'problem energy'—low-frequency emotions that hinder our ability to find solutions. She encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and consider whether they are keeping score. The episode concludes with a challenge to ditch the scorecard and embrace teamwork in our relationships for a more fulfilling life.

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In this episode, Steph discusses the critical role of energy in our lives and how to identify "energy leaks." Leaks in our energy can hinder our productivity and well-being. She identifies various sources of energy drains, including relationships, the way we communicate, screens, and distractions, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing these leaks. The conversation also explores practical strategies for managing energy effectively, especially as we enter a new year, encouraging listeners to audit their energy levels and make necessary adjustments for a more fulfilling life.

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In this episode, Steph discusses the critical importance of rest and recovery in our busy lives. She emphasizes that while many people are engaged in various activities, they often neglect the need for genuine rest. Through the concept of 'deload weeks' from bodybuilding, she illustrates how reducing intensity and volume can lead to better performance and creativity. Steph encourages listeners to apply these principles in their work and personal lives, advocating for a balanced approach to productivity and well-being.

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