In this episode of 34o, I’m joined by Lisa Näs, journalist and long-time writer on sex, relationships and intimacy for women’s magazines.

We talk about what happens behind the text:

- How do you write about sex without turning it into performance?

- Where is the line between honesty and exposure?

- What has changed, culturally and emotionally over the last decade?

Together we explore:

- Writing about intimacy with integrity and responsibility

- Why orgasm has become a performance metric and what gets lost because of it

- What topics were not written about 10 years ago (but are now)

- How language shapes safety, desire and self-image

Lisa’s most important relationship insights after years of interviewing sexologists and relationship experts

This is not an episode about techniques.It’s about trust, nervous systems, language and emotional presence. Because intimacy isn’t what we do. It’s how safe we feel when we meet.