"I love the sight (and the feel!) of bodies molded and shaped by rope. While total immobilization is magnificent, I especially adore ties that leave some freedom of movement - although the more pathetic and ineffectual these remaining movements can be, the better! My happy place is when a body (mine or someone else's) is squirming and writhing, straining against bonds and struggling with exertion in a futile exploration of the constrained movement its present confinement allows.Life moved on, I got busy, and I put my kink interests on the back burner for a few years. Sad! I couldn't continue to do that - I needed some kinky fun back in my life. So, over the last few years I've started revisiting my BDSM interests. I had a blast attending Midori's Rope Dojo, events at the SF Citadel, and I'm looking to mingle with like-minded friends in the bay area."

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