Unhinged and Healing

#37 The Perfectionism Trap w/ Kayla Licari


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Episode Highlights:

perfectionism, relationships, shame, self-awareness, personal growth, emotional health, communication, parenting, self-care, mental health

Summary:

In this engaging podcast episode, Terri and Kayla delve into the complexities of perfectionism, its impact on personal and relational dynamics, and the journey towards self-awareness and healing. They explore how perfectionism manifests in various aspects of life, particularly in relationships, and discuss the importance of recognizing shame and fostering self-compassion. The conversation emphasizes the significance of communication, self-care, and the gradual process of personal growth, highlighting that perfectionism is not about achieving flawlessness but about embracing imperfection and learning to navigate life's challenges with grace.

Takeaways:

  • Perfectionism can be a protective mechanism developed from childhood stress.
  • Self-awareness is crucial in recognizing perfectionistic tendencies.
  • Shame often stems from the 'shoulds' we impose on ourselves.
  • Consistency in actions is more beneficial than striving for perfection.
  • Micro habits can help rebuild trust in oneself.
  • Perfectionism can negatively affect relationships and parenting.
  • Repairing relationships after conflicts is essential for building trust.
  • Every person in our lives reflects our own qualities, both good and bad.
  • Effective communication is key to resolving conflicts in relationships.
  • Self-care and personal growth are vital for healthy relationships.

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Unhinged and HealingBy Terri Boucher