Do you question yourself a lot? Do you wonder why you don't have things figured out? Why aren't you more confident?

These thoughts can run rampant through your mind and repeat themselves over and over.

How you think about feel about yourself affects how you act. How you act determines a lot—including how successful you are in life.

We know successful people are confident, but that can make it feel like a "chicken and egg" problem. That's great for successful people, you say, but what if I'm not already confident? How can I become more confident?

We all have areas of our lives where we feel confident. We also all have areas of our lives where we lack self-confidence. This is natural, for we can't have all experiences.

• You may be good at drawing but not at cooking.

• You may be good at cooking, but not at writing.

• You may be good at writing, but not at rock climbing.

This is okay! But how do we manage the way we think about ourselves, and what we say, in areas where we have no experience? How do we feel about that? How can we intentionally develop and increase our self confidence in areas where we lack?