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By 3ALoveSociety & Culture
3ALove episodes
- Individuality: Become One but Still Remain You
In the final episode of the support segment of the Pillars of our Relationship series, Bree and Kris explore what it means to maintain their individuality while in a relationship. They spend some time talking about co-dependency, and what that looks like, and how they are slowly morphing into each other. They even touch on toxic monogamy, and what some of the signs are. Definitely worthwhile to tune in.
47 min - We Love to See You Self-care
In the second episode of the support series, Bree and self-care queen Kris explore what self-care is, and how to recognize when we need it. They talk about some of the things they do for self-care, and why you should say f**k that job. Taking care of yourself means you can support your partner better. After all, You can’t pour from an empty cup.
47 min - The Second Pillar of Our Relationship: Supporting an Anxious PartnerThe second part of this series kicks off! Kris and Bree decided to start this pillar off with something just as valuable as communication: Support. One of the major ways they show support to each other is to trust the other person to help them through their issues. In this shorter than usual episode, Kris spends some time explaining what exactly anxiety is, and how hers plays out in their relationship. Bree talks about what it’s like to date someone with anxiety, and shares a little bit of her wisdom. Without supporting each other, this relationship wouldn’t STAND a chance…get it?44 min
- Why Do We Have to Break So Many Generational Curses?TW: Sexual Assault....Kris and Bree end the communication segment with childhood trauma, and how that shaped their communication styles. Bree has a phone conversation with her mom about her expectations when she was a new mother, and Kris gets real about her relationship with her mom, and what this will mean for her children. Shit is about to get real.1 hr 2 min
- Friends: Whodini Was Onto Something
TW: abortion
Whodini posed the question “Friends, how many of us have them?” back in 1984, and Bree and Kris are still asking the question in 2020. They spend a little under an hour diving deep into the significance of communicating in friendship, its relation to romantic relationships, and its importance in our lives. Why do we value romantic relationships more than platonic ones? How come nobody talks about the pain behind breaking up with friends? This episode is the second part of the communication series.
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53 min - Communication: The First Pillar of Our Relationship
Bree and Kris explore the term “communication is key” in part 1 of the “Pillars of Our Relationship” series. This 8 week long series features episodes about the 3 foundational aspects of their relationship: Communication, Support, and Sex. How do they maintain their black ass, queer ass, real ass love? You are about to find out. It’s not a coincidence that communication starts the series off, and you’ll hear about how even the small stuff gets talked about. So sit back, relax, and let’s start the show.
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47 min - "this is for the baby gays"
Being young and trying to figure yourself out is hard enough. Being young and queer with no one to show you the ropes? The struggle is real. In this episode, we will share our “coming out” stories, and give some guidance to the baby gays (even though we know some of y’all are going to learn the hard way anyway).
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58 min - Intersections: Not just for the streets
“When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak.” – Audre Lorde And that’s exactly what we’ve decided to do- speak, as unapologetic queer black women. Before we can tell you about our relationship, or give you advice, we have to tell you how our identities intersect and make us who we are. If you’ve ever had a person ask you to put any of your identities to the side for the supposed “greater good” I’m sure you can relate. We decided to answer all of those uncomfortable unasked questions here with black queer people being first and foremost. This episode on intersectionality is for you.
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49 min - Hey, Whats up?In this 'too long to be a trailer' episode, you'll be introduced to your hosts, Kris and Bree, and their vibe, while learning more about the content of this podcast. You'll learn what 3ALove means. You'll also find out who the ratchet significant other is (no surprises there), and get to know their voices. Bree is the "quiet storm listening while the candles are lit" and Kris is "shy" college girl that is a domonatrix on the weekend. They balance each other out. it is all about balance, right? Hope you stay tuned in.its3alove.comFollow us on social media!IG: 3aloveFacebook: 3aloveTwitter: www.twitter.com/3alove_8 min
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Step into the world of queer black couple Kris and Bree, as they take you on a journey of navigating life through a society that doesn’t always acknowledge their existence. Here, they'll talk about…
all the aspects of their relationship and how they overcome the bad, while celebrating the good, and have a lot of fun while doing it. This podcast centers black AND queer people first and foremost. Representation is important, and it’s important that we become an example of healthy queer love in the media. The black ass, queer ass, real ass (3A) love podcast if you will.