Oftentimes, people truly believe that they have self-love because they do self care Sundays and face masks or they take themselves shopping because they "deserve it." There's nothing wrong with that, but a lot of times these actions are merely bandages on top of the wound. Or we'll think that because we acknowledge that we look good and are attractive (even though it requires constant validation for you to actually believe it) that we truly do love ourselves, when a lot of times that's actually arrogance. When you're arrogant, you're puffing yourself up to the outside world to appear bigger than you feel inside because you're actually insecure, but you hide it with vanity, accolades, material things, etc. These are just examples of how we lack self-awareness and don't truly understand what self-love looks like but rather define it at the surface level. For years, I really thought I loved myself, but my actions were not reflective of that declaration. Your actions speak before you even have a chance to open your mouth. Let's take steps toward your actual self-love journey! Tune in to hear the 4 biggest signs that you don't truly love yourself like you claim you do. Remember, healing starts with awareness of the problem.