On a recent walk with my pups, I was marinating on the shared habits and characteristics of my clients who are now in long term relationships. It got me thinking about the inverse behavior — less of what people actually do and more of what people don't do that blocks them from growth and change. Not just in relationships, but in any area of their life.  In todays episode I'm digging into those four common pitfalls.

They center around:

• Circumventing your pain
• Being obsessed with the how of dating (i.e. how to meet someone) versus looking closely at the nature of your dating life
• Not picking up on the cues surrounding your obstacles, that live outside of your dating
• Treating your dating life as if it operates in a vacuum

If you've been single or dating for a while and find not much has changed in terms of the type of people you meet, today's episode should illuminate some areas of change.

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