Finding Me, Again.

4 | Dealing with Toxic People During the Holidays

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The holidays are supposed to be a time of joy and connection, but dealing with difficult family dynamics can quickly steal your peace. In this episode of Finding Me, Again, we’re tackling one of the most challenging aspects of the season—navigating toxic behaviors from loved ones.

Host Myriam Capehart shares personal insights, researched strategies, and wisdom from thought leaders like Rumi to help you reclaim your holiday joy. Learn how to set boundaries, protect your energy, and reframe difficult interactions into opportunities for personal growth. Whether you’re dealing with passive-aggressive comments, constant negativity, or emotional drains, this episode will empower you to show up with confidence, grace, and a clear mind.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • How to redefine “toxic” behavior and approach it with empathy.
  • Common patterns of behavior like the Drainer, Blamer, and Passive-Aggressor—and how to handle them.
  • Practical steps for setting boundaries and sticking to them.
  • Tools to protect your energy and maintain inner peace during gatherings.
  • How to shift your focus to the moments and people that bring you joy.

    • Quotes from the Episode:

    • “When we carry the emotional weight of other people’s opinions, we give them control over our peace.”
    • “Don’t get lost in your pain. Know that one day your pain will become your cure.” – Rumi
    • “When you are grateful, fear disappears, and abundance appears.” – Paulo Coelho

      • Actionable Steps from the Episode:

      1. Identify recurring behaviors: Reflect on patterns that drain your energy and plan how to respond.
      2. Set clear boundaries: Decide in advance what you will and won’t engage in during family gatherings.
      3. Protect your energy: Use visualization techniques or mindful pauses to reset when feeling overwhelmed.
      4. Reframe interactions: Approach challenges as opportunities to practice patience or self-assurance.
      5. Focus on joy: Redirect your attention to uplifting moments and supportive family members.
      6. Have an exit strategy: Plan ahead to leave situations that feel too draining or overwhelming.

        7. Resources Mentioned:

        • Rumi’s quotes on inner peace and growth.
        • Paulo Coelho’s insights on gratitude.
        • Tips for setting boundaries and practicing mindfulness during the holidays.

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          Let’s connect! Find me on Instagram at @myriamcapehart and share your holiday strategies or reflections. I’d love to hear your stories and support you in this journey.

          Remember, beautiful soul, you deserve to enjoy the holidays with a full heart and a clear mind. Let’s protect our energy, embrace the joy, and keep finding our way back to you. 💖

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