When we recently moved with two kids under 4 years old, it was a doozy. I’ve learned so much these past two weeks, and I’ve made so many mistakes. In an effort to save you time and sanity, here’s a list of four life-saving tips that I wish I’d known before I started this whole process: 1. Ask for help. So many people offered to help us. Let us take the kids while you pack, some said. I can come over and help you sort out your closet, others offered.