College Is Fine, Everything's Fine

#4 Why It Can Be Hard to Find Your People, and Keep Them (5 Interpersonal Effectiveness Obstacles)


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Finding your people in college isn't always easy. Keeping them? Sometimes that’s even trickier. On today's episode, we talk to our first expert guest, Professor Amy DiBernardo. She’s a licensed clinical social worker, an instructor at New York University and a former J.Crew junkie (emphasis on former). 

We chat about the 5 obstacles we see on campus that keep our clients stuck in a whole range of social situations:

1) Not knowing what to do (lack of skill)
2) Thoughts getting in the way (worry thoughts, “what if’s”)
3) Big emotions (being too dysregulated to communicate well)
4) Indecisiveness (can’t make a decision about what’s right)
5) Environment too powerful (people in power positions not cooperating)

We all open up about our than-professional moments in college. But good news, we all managed to push past “the regrets” to live another day. And so can you. 

As you listen this week, think about which obstacles sound the most familiar. We’ll be coming back with specific tips in the following few episodes. Use today’s chat as your guide to honing in on what future episode you want to listen to. 

Want to share your story, give us feedback or offer up an episode idea? Reach out! We'd love to hear from you.

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