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41: Valentine’s Day—Hallmark Holiday or Passionate Power Play


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In this Valentine’s Day special episode, Ellen Dorian dives into the history, meaning, and modern-day pressures of the holiday. Whether listeners are diehard romantics or Valentine’s Day cynics, Ellen provides practical advice and creative ideas to help them plan a day that fits their relationship. From understanding their partner’s expectations to avoiding last-minute stress, this episode is packed with insights to make Valentine's Day a meaningful and stress-free experience.

Part 1: Understanding Valentine's Day

  • A look at the origins of the holiday, including its rebellious roots in ancient Rome.
  • Why Valentine’s Day can feel commercialized and how shifting perspectives can help.
  • The significance of aligning with or acknowledging a partner's attachment to the day.

Part 2: Meeting Relationship Expectations

  • The importance of understanding a partner’s expectations for Valentine's Day.
  • The consequences of ignoring the holiday if it's important to one partner.
  • Two options: setting clear boundaries or using the holiday to strengthen the relationship.

Part 3: Planning a Personalized Valentine’s Day

Strategies for different types of relationships:

  • Partners who are indifferent to the holiday.
  • Partners who want something special but aren’t tied to traditions.
  • Traditionalists who expect classic Valentine’s Day elements (roses, chocolates, fancy dinner).

Key Takeaways:
  • Understanding how a partner feels about romantic gestures can prevent miscommunication and disappointment.
  • Thoughtful, personalized efforts go a long way in building a stronger, more affectionate relationship.
  • Planning ahead ensures less stress, fewer mistakes, and a better overall experience.


Call to Action:

Listeners can download the Ultimate Valentine’s Day Planning Kit to get a head start on their planning. The kit includes a timeline, curated gift ideas, and a planner to keep everything organized.


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Closing Thoughts:

Ellen encourages listeners to take one small step to elevate their next Valentine’s Day, whether this year’s celebration is a hit or a lesson learned. Showing a partner that they are understood and appreciated strengthens intimacy, affection, and resilience in the relationship.

Support & Resources:

Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.

All links can be found below.


"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
Disclaimer:

The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations.



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Make More LoveBy Ellen Dorian