January 13, 2025

411. Stay-at-home Fatherhood and Finding Your Story J.D. Murgolo

1 hour 14 minutes

"It's a big job raising children. It's a big job teaching them everything." - My dad

Today's guest J.D. Murgolo is a father, podcaster, and teacher. Join Reena Friedman Watts and her dad, Wayne"Big Daddy" Friedman, as they delve into J.D.'s journey of being a stay-at-home dad, the power of storytelling, and the delicate balance of tradition and modern parenting.

In this episode, J.D. shares his perspective on the importance of using names to create personal connections, the joys and challenges of being a stay-at-home dad, and the influence of his Montessori background on his parenting style.

Discover how J.D. navigates the complexities of family dynamics, traditions, and the decision to embrace fatherhood in a unique way. The conversation takes an intriguing turn as J.D. reflects on his podcasting journey, exploring the stories that shape us and the courage it takes to share them. With three podcasts under his belt, J.D. reveals how storytelling has become a tool for personal growth and connection.

Reena's dad, Wayne, weighs in with his wisdom on the role of storytelling in education and the balance between homeschooling and socialization. He shares his own experiences with family traditions and the legacy of storytelling passed down through generations.

(00:00) Each week I interview a guest, share the stories with my dad

(01:54) JD Murgolo loves helping people, and remembering their names

(05:02) I have always enjoyed talking. I'm not that kid that talked to telemarketers

(10:22) If I ask something that makes you uncomfortable, please tell me

(15:13) You did an episode on Santa Claus for kids. It was just entertaining to me

(20:05) You mentioned earlier that you didn't know that you wanted to have kids

(24:47) Both of your families moved closer to you when you were pregnant

(30:38) J.D. was the stay at home dad for his son for two years

(36:21) J.D. says it made more sense for him to stay home with kids

(40:45) What do parents do when their kids come home from school

(45:59) Having Montessori background freed us from a lot of parenting decisions

(49:34) What do you think your dad would have been like as a stay at home dad

(54:55) I've relaxed about it. Like I urge you, I understand it calms you down no matter what

(55:34) Your podcast focuses on getting people's stories and how that relates to mental health

(58:30) JD asked listeners to share the part of their story they feel most connected

(01:03:20) How do you feel about being a stay at home dad

(01:07:43) What does J.D. think about passing on the load of being a teacher

Connect with J.D.

fragilemoments.org

Connect with Reena Friedman Watts:

- Website: bettercalldaddy.com

- LinkedIn: Reena Friedman Watts

- Twitter: @reenareena

- Instagram: @Reena Friedman Watts

- Instagram Podcast: @bettercalldaddypodcast

- Youtube https://www.youtube.com/@BetterCallDaddy

Join us for an episode filled with laughter, introspection, and the timeless wisdom of storytelling. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who values the art of storytelling and the beauty of family connections.

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