Psychologically Speaking with Leila Ainge

42. The Psychology of Goal Setting: Flexibility, Identity & Belonging


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Why do some goals stick while others fade?

In this episode, psychologist Leila Ainge explores the psychology behind effective goal-setting — blending insights from real conversations with three guests and research on motivation, social identity, and resilience.

You’ll hear how Rebecca, Jen, and Darren each navigate creative ambition, self-belief, and belonging, and how their stories reveal the deeper psychological forces shaping success.

Expect practical reflection points on:

  • The difference between approach and avoidance motivation
  • Why flexible four-week check-ins outperform rigid plans
  • How your social identity shapes confidence and action
  • What it means to design goals that fit who you’re becoming

This is your psychology-backed guide to setting goals that work with your identity, not against it.

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Download your free Goal Reflection Log — the first exercise from my psychology-backed coaching framework — and start your next check-in, not check-up.

Create space to think before the new year rush and design goals that actually fit who you’re becoming.

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