This week, I’m joined by the lovely Tabitha Panariso. She is a licensed professional counselor, writer, speaker, and theologian, who brings counseling into the everyday fabric of life.

She’s also the author of Loyal in His Love: An Invitation to Be Held by Jesus When Others Let You Go. At the heart of Tabitha’s work is a commitment to creating space for life's toughest moments and guiding others toward healing with clarity and compassion.

We dive into everything today from the plots of Seinfeld to the ways we experience and process rejection- both as adults and as parents helping our kids cope with it. This is exactly the type of conversation I love having on this show, and I’m sure you’ll enjoy it just as much!

2:08 – Tabitha 101

•    Wife and mom •    Christ-centered and trauma-informed therapist •    A new author •    Bonding over Seinfeld 

14:13 – Redefining Acceptance

•    The emotional and spiritual toll of rejection •    How social media can amplify feelings of rejection •    A defining moment of acceptance for Tabitha •    God’s unwavering love and faithfulness

23:09 – Healing Through Christ’s Compassion 

•    Receiving the compassion that Christ has given us •    Naming the pain and emotions you experience •    Allowing ourselves to be dependent on God

37:24 – Modeling Faith For Your Children

•    How practicing self-awareness extends to parenting •    Offering children a safe place •    Pointing your kids to Christ over and over again  •    Getting your copy of Tabitha’s book

FEATURED QUOTES

“It's important for us to name our pain, name our feelings, because it's just like when we break a bone or when we are physically hurt- if we aren't able to acknowledge that pain, then it's only going to exasperate, it's only going to fester.”

“When we can lament, when we can grieve, when we can name what's happening in us, that's us re-posturing our hearts and allowing us to be dependent on God.”

“Reminding our kids where their true value lies and where their true worth lies- that is the greatest gift that we can give them.”

 

Learn more about Tabitha:

Get your copy of Loyal in His Love

https://www.amazon.com/Loyal-His-Love-Invitation-Others-ebook/dp/B0CTHR9FCD

Tabitha on Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/tabithapanariso/

Tabitha on Substack 

https://substack.com/@tabithapanariso

Tabitha on Threads

https://www.threads.net/@tabithapanariso

 

 

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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?

 

Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.