Sometimes we think we aren’t happy, so maybe we need to change something externally.... it may lead you to even think your partner is the problem…you think “Oh I’m not happy with him.”  Maybe, maybe not. Maybe you’re just not happy, full stop.  Until you can firmly say with no hesitation that I am happy with myself AND I don’t think he is who I am meant to be with, you don’t need to go anywhere.  Fix what’s wrong inside before you ever try to fix what you think is wrong outside.  I beg you.