In this episode, we discuss the concept of emotional bids and their impact on intimacy within relationships. We explore our own experiences with turning towards, turning away, and turning against these bids, and how it has affected our marriage. Through anecdotes and examples, including insights from relationship expert John Gottman, we delve into the importance of recognizing and responding to emotional bids to foster connection and intimacy. Additionally, we address the challenges of maintaining emotional connection in the digital age and share our journey towards healthier, more intimate relationships.