Events happen to us in our life, initially we label these events to give them some kind of meaning. You break your leg, that's bad, you get a raise that's good. Yet what if after breaking your leg your doctor discovers a life-threatening disease? What if that raise required more responsibility and work and you ended up regretting taking it? We don't know what is good or what is bad, all we can do is accept the current reality and try our best to discover what gifts and opportunities lie ahead.