Part of transforming your life and changing your trajectory so you can get to a different destination that you really desire is looking at what you are doing and asking, does this work for me? Is it really taking you and building you the life that you want? Big doors swing on small hinges. Ask yourself: *What is the one thing that if you deleted out of your life or added to your life could make a real drastic positive change for the betterment of your future and the betterment of your children and spouse? Is what you are doing working for you?