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46. How Do You Know He's Really The ONE? | Rawaida Jimi | Wedding Diaries #2


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Committing to marriage can feel downright terrifying - how do you really know if you’re saying yes to the right person? In the 2nd part of our Wedding Diaries series, RJ and I are diving deep into this very question.

In this episode, we get real about what we believe are the key criteria when it comes to finding The One - the person we feel confident enough to marry. From physical attraction and financial compatibility to love languages and everything in between, we’re covering it all.

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0:00 intro
1:03 “the one” is subjective
1:27 the idea of “the one” when we were younger
3:51 the criteria you have for “the one” changes as you grow older
8:10 trust as a criteria
11:06 financially secure as a criteria
20:42 constant as a criteria
24:06 similar family values as a criteria
30:34 loyalty as a criteria
32:33 similar future plans as a criteria
34:15 communication and love language as a criteria
41:18 religion as a criteria
46:10 wrap up
47:44 outro


💖  Introducing the Wedding Diaries! 💍

Wedding Diaries is a 5-part mini series where I team up with my chosen sister, RJ and other guests to talk all about wedding planning and marriage preparation. Weddings and marriage are such monumental chapters in our adult lives, and with my own big day just around the corner (okay to be fair I still have one year to go), I thought it would be fun to take you along and share my experiences and lessons that I’ve learned so far.

Whether you’re in the midst of planning your own wedding, preparing for marriage, or just curious about the whole journey, we hope our stories make you feel a little less alone and a lot more connected.

👰🏻‍♀️ Catch up with Part 1 - Our Engagement Stories: https://open.spotify.com/episode/02Y5U8SkhmIIaJHS49XHes?si=e430912453b64526


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