In this episode, i sat down in my living room with my friends, Nicole from Canada and Rae from Singapore, for an honest conversation about our shared journey as creators and entrepreneurs.
We talked about manifestation (in a practical, non-fluffy way), what it really takes to step into a version of yourself you haven't fully become yet, and why so many of us are waiting for permission that was never ours to ask for in the first place.
if you've ever felt like you're not ready, not qualified, not enough yet to go after what you actually want — this one's for you.
We got into:
- why showing all of yourself online attracts better people than niching down ever will
- what manifestation actually looks like when you strip away the aesthetics
- Nicole's journey from shy introvert to confident creator (and what actually shifted)
- why your confidence matters more than your credentials
- how to use your voice even when you're scaredand why becoming her starts way before you feel ready
If you've been in a season of reinvention, trying to build confidence, use your voice more boldly, or step into your next-level self — I think this conversation will really resonate with you.
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About Rae:
Rae has been shifting the energy of rooms since she was 15 — as an emcee, speaker, and coach. Her career proves that "too young, too short, too inexperienced" are just stereotypes that don't have to limit you. Rae doesn't just teach you how to speak, she guides purpose-driven leaders to align their inner and outer voice to create a presence that's impossible to ignore.
📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raematrix/
🎙️ Podcast: https://tinyurl.com/oyvpod
🎓 Free Training: https://www.raefung.com/instant-access-webinar
About Nicole:
Nicole is a YouTuber, coach, and entrepreneur on a mission to help 9-5ers build a side hustle and dream life beyond their jobs. She integrates Buddhist philosophy and ancient health and wellness practices into her work and everyday life.▶️ YouTube: www.youtube.com/@itsnicolesyk
📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsnicolesyk
🎙️ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/that-confident-creator/id1674637666
Timestamps:
0:00:00 intro – meeting friends from the internet & authentic connections
0:02:33 why putting yourself online attracts aligned people
0:05:15 why authenticity matters more in the age of AI
0:06:30 building genuine community through shared values
0:07:20 manifestation, spirituality & attracting your people
0:12:50 how to write/speak authentically and attract alignment
0:14:45 balancing creativity, intuition & business strategy
0:16:00 the artist trap: why beautiful content doesn't always convert
0:17:15 why failure is necessary for identity shifts
0:18:11 how manifestation actually works beyond positive thinking
0:18:36 visualizing your future identity clearly - Rae's vision
0:23:10 Nicole's journey from shy introvert to confident creator
0:25:10 it's okay to pivot - Wendy's change in vision
0:28:41 small courageous steps build self-confidence
0:33:58 anything worth creating has risks - the sacrifices along the way
0:41:54 dealing with parent's objection in an unconventional path
0:48:13 fear and anxiety in the early stages of entrepreneurship
0:51:55 your dreams are delusions if you're not practical with money and strategy
0:55:21 thoughts and beliefs that guided Nicole's identity shifts
0:58:52 our human tendency to focus on negative thoughts
1:00:45 say yes first, figure it out later mindset
1:03:14 main character energy and lucky girl syndrome
1:04:04 an easy way to approach surrendering
1:06:50 using your voice even when you're scared
1:10:35 final reflections & where to find Rae + Nicole
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