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46: Why I Stay Up Late Even Though I Know Better
aka: The Identity Crisis Hiding in Your Sleep Schedule
You’re not bad at routines. You’re starving for yourself.
This episode is a raw, real-time reflection on why we trade sleep for slivers of freedom—and what it costs us as parents, partners, and people trying to feel like ourselves again. We’re talking sleep sabotage, revenge bedtime procrastination, and the emotional tug-of-war between being responsible and being free.
00:02 – Why this episode’s late & what that teaches about presence vs. planning
01:30 – The truth: I teach regulation but still sabotage my own sleep
03:40 – What sleep debt actually does to your emotional regulation
04:20 – The 11PM me vs. the real me—chaos, cravings, and content plans
05:45 – Why bedtime feels like the last taste of freedom
06:40 – What I’m really grieving when I avoid sleep
07:50 – Journal of Behavioral Sleep Medicine: revenge bedtime defined
08:40 – Self-awareness: what’s the real need behind the delay?
09:38 – Reframing routines: not losing the night, but winning the morning
10:50 – Fortitude = Choosing rest as resistance
11:50 – Transformation: rewriting the script of what rest means
12:50 – Harvard Med stat: sleep loss reduces emotion recognition by 30%
💭 SHIFT Rx (Tuesday) → Sleep isn't a luxury; it's our nervous system's non-negotiable
🎙️ Guest Interview (Thursday) → Pediatric Sleep Coach Allison Egidi joins us for a powerful conversation about our little ones' sleep habits
🚨 Want to stop parenting from old code?
Join the Parental SHIFT and learn how to stop reacting from your past—and start leading from your actual self.
Take Action:
Book a Clarity Call
- TikTok: @asteadyspace
- Instagram & Threads: @asteadyspace | @your_steady_space | @shifttalkingwithdavina
- Youtube: @asteadyspace
- Visit www.asteadyspace.com for more information about coaching services and programs.
Join the Community: Ready to take the next step in your emotional growth journey? Join the Steady Space community for exclusive content, monthly Q&As, and tools to help you stay steady and get your shift together.
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By Davina Hehnaka: The Identity Crisis Hiding in Your Sleep Schedule
You’re not bad at routines. You’re starving for yourself.
This episode is a raw, real-time reflection on why we trade sleep for slivers of freedom—and what it costs us as parents, partners, and people trying to feel like ourselves again. We’re talking sleep sabotage, revenge bedtime procrastination, and the emotional tug-of-war between being responsible and being free.
00:02 – Why this episode’s late & what that teaches about presence vs. planning
01:30 – The truth: I teach regulation but still sabotage my own sleep
03:40 – What sleep debt actually does to your emotional regulation
04:20 – The 11PM me vs. the real me—chaos, cravings, and content plans
05:45 – Why bedtime feels like the last taste of freedom
06:40 – What I’m really grieving when I avoid sleep
07:50 – Journal of Behavioral Sleep Medicine: revenge bedtime defined
08:40 – Self-awareness: what’s the real need behind the delay?
09:38 – Reframing routines: not losing the night, but winning the morning
10:50 – Fortitude = Choosing rest as resistance
11:50 – Transformation: rewriting the script of what rest means
12:50 – Harvard Med stat: sleep loss reduces emotion recognition by 30%
💭 SHIFT Rx (Tuesday) → Sleep isn't a luxury; it's our nervous system's non-negotiable
🎙️ Guest Interview (Thursday) → Pediatric Sleep Coach Allison Egidi joins us for a powerful conversation about our little ones' sleep habits
🚨 Want to stop parenting from old code?
Join the Parental SHIFT and learn how to stop reacting from your past—and start leading from your actual self.
Take Action:
Book a Clarity Call
- TikTok: @asteadyspace
- Instagram & Threads: @asteadyspace | @your_steady_space | @shifttalkingwithdavina
- Youtube: @asteadyspace
- Visit www.asteadyspace.com for more information about coaching services and programs.
Join the Community: Ready to take the next step in your emotional growth journey? Join the Steady Space community for exclusive content, monthly Q&As, and tools to help you stay steady and get your shift together.