“You can go from the depths of despair to a life of purpose.” — Ben Freedland

In this gripping episode of Better Call Daddy, host Reena Friedman Watts and her dad, Wayne Friedman, sit down with Ben Freedland—a man who’s lived multiple lives: Coconut King, federal inmate, devoted father, and now a respected government consultant.

Incredibly, during the recording of this interview, Ben was experiencing a spinal fluid leak. The moment we wrapped, he went straight to the hospital. He’s now out, recovering, and we’re grateful to share this episode—made even more powerful knowing what he was enduring in real time.

Ben opens up about being known as “the Jew” in prison, surviving solitary confinement, and the pivotal moment a compassionate chaplain changed the direction of his life. He shares how he reclaimed his identity, leaned into faith, and found mentors who helped guide his transformation.

Today, Ben is a proud and present father. He reflects on how parenting fuels his purpose, shapes his decisions, and inspires the legacy he’s dedicated to building for his children.

From privilege to crime during the recession

Faith, identity, and mentorship behind bars

Surviving solitary confinement and unexpected turning points

The responsibilities and rewards of fatherhood

Choosing redemption, purpose, and storytelling

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