Hey y'all, and welcome back to another episode of "This is for Us." As always, I’m thankful you’re here with me today. This episode is especially close to my heart because I’m sharing the seven things I wish someone had told me the day I started college. Whether you’re just starting your college journey, already graduated, or are far past that season, these life takeaways are valuable for anyone. Let’s dive in.

Key Takeaways:

1. Embrace the Unexpected: Life rarely goes as planned, especially in college. Don’t waste time trying to have everything figured out. The best experiences often come from the unplanned moments, so live fully and trust the journey.

2. Be a Little Irresponsible: College is the time to have fun and be a little reckless—within reason. Stay up late, go to the party, and make memories. Just remember to balance fun with your responsibilities.

3. Follow Your Own Path: Don’t choose a major or make decisions based on what others expect from you. Follow your heart and pursue what truly interests you. And remember, you can always change your mind—it’s okay to pivot.

4. Put Yourself First: Always make decisions with your well-being in mind. Dress for yourself, not for others, and go out to have fun without worrying about what others think. Your self-worth isn’t tied to someone else’s opinion.

5. Learn to Manage Overwhelm: College life can be overwhelming with all the responsibilities. You will get through it. Take it one step at a time and don’t be afraid to have a meltdown—just don’t stay there too long.

6. Avoid the Mean Girl Trap: Stay out of drama and be kind to everyone. Focus on being a great friend and avoid the negativity. Surround yourself with positive influences and know who your true friends are.

7. Cherish Your College Experience: These years will fly by. Embrace every moment, the ups and downs, and make the most of this time. Remember, it’s a time to find yourself and create lasting memories.

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Thank you for being part of this journey with me. Remember, you’re never trapped in anything—this is your life to live, and you have the permission to pivot anytime. Until next time, take care and keep cherishing those around you. We’re in this together because This Is For Us.

I hope you love this episode xoxo