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48 | Understanding Autistic Behavior with Compassion | Megan Ashley
What if parents could feel less afraid, less confused, and more connected to their autistic children?
In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene sits down with Megan Ashley: an autistic Black woman, licensed therapist, parent advocate, speaker, and author. Megan shares her own late autism diagnosis, what helped her recognize autism in herself, and how her lived experience now shapes the work she does with families.
Together, they talk about sensory differences, masking, culture, behavior, and why so many autistic children are misunderstood when adults only look at the surface of what they do. Megan offers a compassionate, practical framework for parents who want to better understand their child instead of reacting from fear or frustration.
This conversation is a powerful reminder that many behaviors make more sense when we slow down, stay curious, and learn to listen differently. If you've ever wanted to better understand what your child is trying to communicate, this episode is a meaningful place to start.
Topics Covered
• Megan Ashley's late autism diagnosis and lived experience • Why sensory differences are often one of the clearest signs of autism • How culture shapes the way autism is understood and supported • What masking is and why it can be so exhausting • Why autistic girls are often diagnosed later than boys • How environment influences whether autistic traits are supported or stressed • Redefining what "okay" can mean for your child • How parents can listen beyond behavior and better understand communication
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Megan Ashley's advocacy mission 01:20 Megan's late autism diagnosis and personal journey 03:00 Understanding autistic thinking and communication differences 04:30 Autism culture and why context matters 08:45 Sensory differences and real-life sensory examples 10:20 Masking explained and why it can be exhausting 13:40 Why autistic girls are often diagnosed later 17:20 Recognizing sensory differences in children 20:40 Autism traits, strengths, and supportive environments 25:30 Redefining what "okay" means for autistic children 28:30 How parents can listen better and remove bias
Memorable Quote
"Meet them where they're at — not where you want them to be." — Megan Ashley
About the Guest
Megan Ashley is a licensed therapist, speaker, author, parent advocate, and autism advocate. As an autistic Black woman, her work focuses on helping parents better understand and connect with their autistic children through empathy, behavioral understanding, and practical support. She is the author of Blueprints of Behavior: Understanding Autism in Your Family Through Behavior.
Resources Mentioned
• Perfect Consulting • Blueprints of Behavior: Understanding Autism in Your Family Through Behavior by Megan Ashley • Megan Ashley on Instagram
About the Host
Brian Keene is a pediatric occupational therapist and founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming therapy practice providing in-home pediatric therapy services for families in Arizona.
Through the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian shares practical tools, expert conversations, and supportive insights to help parents navigate the journey of raising neurodivergent children.
Learn more at: https://pureheartstherapy.com
Subscribe & Connect
If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation.
Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956
Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com
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What if parents could feel less afraid, less confused, and more connected to their autistic children?
In this episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene sits down with Megan Ashley: an autistic Black woman, licensed therapist, parent advocate, speaker, and author. Megan shares her own late autism diagnosis, what helped her recognize autism in herself, and how her lived experience now shapes the work she does with families.
Together, they talk about sensory differences, masking, culture, behavior, and why so many autistic children are misunderstood when adults only look at the surface of what they do. Megan offers a compassionate, practical framework for parents who want to better understand their child instead of reacting from fear or frustration.
This conversation is a powerful reminder that many behaviors make more sense when we slow down, stay curious, and learn to listen differently. If you've ever wanted to better understand what your child is trying to communicate, this episode is a meaningful place to start.
Topics Covered
• Megan Ashley's late autism diagnosis and lived experience • Why sensory differences are often one of the clearest signs of autism • How culture shapes the way autism is understood and supported • What masking is and why it can be so exhausting • Why autistic girls are often diagnosed later than boys • How environment influences whether autistic traits are supported or stressed • Redefining what "okay" can mean for your child • How parents can listen beyond behavior and better understand communication
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Megan Ashley's advocacy mission 01:20 Megan's late autism diagnosis and personal journey 03:00 Understanding autistic thinking and communication differences 04:30 Autism culture and why context matters 08:45 Sensory differences and real-life sensory examples 10:20 Masking explained and why it can be exhausting 13:40 Why autistic girls are often diagnosed later 17:20 Recognizing sensory differences in children 20:40 Autism traits, strengths, and supportive environments 25:30 Redefining what "okay" means for autistic children 28:30 How parents can listen better and remove bias
Memorable Quote
"Meet them where they're at — not where you want them to be." — Megan Ashley
About the Guest
Megan Ashley is a licensed therapist, speaker, author, parent advocate, and autism advocate. As an autistic Black woman, her work focuses on helping parents better understand and connect with their autistic children through empathy, behavioral understanding, and practical support. She is the author of Blueprints of Behavior: Understanding Autism in Your Family Through Behavior.
Resources Mentioned
• Perfect Consulting • Blueprints of Behavior: Understanding Autism in Your Family Through Behavior by Megan Ashley • Megan Ashley on Instagram
About the Host
Brian Keene is a pediatric occupational therapist and founder of Pure Hearts Therapy, a neurodiversity-affirming therapy practice providing in-home pediatric therapy services for families in Arizona.
Through the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian shares practical tools, expert conversations, and supportive insights to help parents navigate the journey of raising neurodivergent children.
Learn more at: https://pureheartstherapy.com
Subscribe & Connect
If this episode resonated with you, please consider sharing it with another parent who might benefit from this conversation.
Listen and subscribe to the Autism Family Resource Podcast: https://pod.link/1591840956
Explore more resources for families at: https://pureheartstherapy.com