When raising a child with autism, ADHD, or sensory challenges, many families focus primarily on child-centered therapy. While occupational therapy, speech therapy, and behavior therapy are incredibly important, family support is just as crucial for long-term success.
At Pure Hearts Therapy, we believe real change happens when parents are empowered too. In a recent episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast, Brian Keene sat down with Lisa Chan, a parent coach, pediatric occupational therapist, and expert in child behavior, to discuss how parents can transform family dynamics and empower their child's emotional growth.
Why Family Support Matters in Autism Therapy
As Lisa explains, parents are the most important factor in a child's progress. Therapists may only see a child once or twice a week—but parents guide daily routines, manage emotions in real-time, and provide the secure foundation that every child needs.
Without strong family dynamics, even the best therapy services can't create lasting change. That's why autism family support and parent coaching for autism are becoming such essential resources today.
Emotional Regulation: The Foundation of Growth
One of the key areas Lisa focuses on is emotional regulation strategies. Children are not born knowing how to manage big emotions. They learn it by experiencing it alongside a regulated adult.
Co-regulation—the process where parents model emotional calmness—helps children build their own ability to stay calm during challenges. It's not about suppressing emotions or "just staying calm" on the surface. It's about truly understanding and validating your child's feelings while staying grounded yourself.
✅ Tip: Practice noticing your own emotional triggers. During your child's meltdown, focus on staying steady, not perfect. Your child will learn from your energy more than your words.
Setting Boundaries Builds Security
Many families worry that firm boundaries might upset their child more—but Lisa emphasizes the opposite: Firm, loving boundaries create emotional safety.
Children thrive when expectations are clear and consistent. When boundaries constantly shift, children feel uncertain, which can lead to more meltdowns, anxiety, and resistance.
✅ Tip: Stick to your "no" when necessary—with kindness and validation. For example, "I know you really want that candy, and it's okay to feel upset. We're not getting it today, but I'm here with you."
This approach supports secure attachment and builds resilience over time.
Social Skills Struggles: How Parents Can Help
Another common concern for families today is helping children with autism develop social skills. If a child struggles with emotional regulation or reading social cues, they may feel isolated or left out at school or on the playground.
Instead of hoping they'll "figure it out," Lisa recommends active social skills coaching.
✅ Tip: Practice role-playing common social situations at home. Pretend to be another child and guide your child through ways to join games, start conversations, or handle conflict.
This kind of practice can build confidence and reduce social anxiety—key parts of social skills support for autism.
Final Words of Encouragement for Parents
Lisa shares a powerful reminder:
"If you're noticing struggles—whether it's with your child or your own confidence as a parent—don't wait. Get support now. Early intervention helps both children and families thrive long-term."
Today's families are carrying more stress than ever. Between social media comparisons, isolation from extended family, and the daily demands of parenting, seeking help for yourself is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Ready for More Support?
If you're looking for:
● Family-centered autism support
● Parent coaching for emotional regulation
● Social skills development strategies
● Help navigating family dynamics with autism
Pure Hearts Therapy is here to walk alongside you. We offer playful, personalized, and respectful therapy services to help families grow stronger—together.
👉 Learn more about our services and how we can help you here!
🎧 Listen to the full episode of the Autism Family Resource Podcast featuring Lisa Chan here.
Special Offer: Lisa is offering a 40% discount on her Emotional Regulation Course and a 30% discount on parent coaching packages for Mother's Day (available throughout May)!
