Piper's Dojo Audio Experience

480 - How To Take And Give Criticism (Dojo Conversations Episode 147)


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Why does criticism feel so uncomfortable, and yet matter so much for growth?

This week, Andrew and Jim unpack the messy, meaningful world of critique: how to receive it without spiraling, how to give it without crushing someone’s spirit, and why feedback is one of the most powerful tools musicians (and humans) have.

From creative-writing workshops to piping circles, they share real stories and practical strategies for handling feedback with curiosity, humility, and a little bit of humor.

Whether you’re tackling musical critique, professional feedback, or that one opinionated bandmate… this episode gives you a playbook for navigating it all.

🎧💭 Criticism stings — but learning to embrace it might just be your super-power.

Like, subscribe, and tell us in the comments:
💬 What’s the best (or worst) critique you’ve ever gotten?
🎵 How do you approach giving feedback in your band or creative life?

Here’s what we cover this week:

  • 00:00 – Intro & banter: apartment amenities & ceiling fan chaos
  • 02:00 – Modern marketing and the “what really makes a home?” rant
  • 04:00 – Why criticism matters (especially in music)
  • 06:00 – Why critique hurts — and why it helps
  • 10:00 – How to receive criticism
  • 18:00 – When to ignore feedback (jealousy, noise, or tradition-policing)
  • 22:00 – How to give criticism
  • 30:00 – The social side: culture, groupthink, and competition
  • 35:00 – Criticism in systems: loyal opposition & why institutions need critique
  • 40:00 – Final thoughts: embracing feedback as fuel for growth
  • Related reading:
  • Check out this article for a deeper dive on giving effective feedback: https://internationalwriterscollective.com/dos-and-donts-of-critiquing/

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