The Gray Area with Sean Illing

When your aging parents can’t put down their phones, where does care end and control begin?

In this episode, Vox reporter and producer Miles Bryan talks with internet culture reporter Jessica Lucas about the older adults who are getting hooked on AI-generated videos, and their grown children who are trying to intervene. Her reporting follows families navigating sleepless nights, health misinformation, subscription traps, and an uncomfortable reversal: the parents who may have once warned their kids about screen time as children, now need help managing their own.

They explore how grief and loneliness can draw people into endless scrolling, who profits from keeping them there, and what researchers can (and can’t) tell us about the effects on the aging brain. They also consider the ethical questions facing families who secretly change passwords, curate feeds, or install restrictions. How do you protect someone without taking away their independence, or the online connections that still bring them joy?

Host: Miles Bryan, Vox Reporter and Producer

Guest: Jessica Lucas, reporter of the New York Magazine article, "The Adult Children Cleaning Up Their Parents’ Feeds" 

00:00 Intro

01:43 How do parents become “screenagers”?

09:32 When does scrolling become dangerous?

11:37 What are our phones helping us escape?

14:51 How is this different from watching TV all day?

20:41 What do we know about screens and the aging brain?

24:17 Does it matter if the content is fake?

30:19 When does protecting your parents become controlling them?We would love to hear from you. To tell us what you thought of this episode, email us at [email protected] or leave us a voicemail at 1-800-214-5749. Your comments and questions help us make a better show.

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If even chocolate is getting worse, what does that tell us about our economy and the state of life’s small pleasures?

In today’s episode, Vox host Jonquilyn Hill talks to New York Magazine writer Rachel Handler, who spent seven months investigating that question and uncovered a story that goes well beyond candy. Handler explains how manufacturing has changed, what chocolate reveals about corporate profits and inequality, and why even life’s smallest pleasures increasingly feel like luxuries. 

They explore the hidden costs of convenience, whether we’ve learned to like inferior products, and the indignity of being told nothing has changed, even when we can taste the difference. What do we lose when we stop expecting everyday things to be good? And what would it take to make a decent chocolate bar an ordinary pleasure everyone can afford?

Host: Jonquilyn Hill, host of Explain It To Me

Guest: Rachel Handler, features writer for New York Magazine

Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:24 Why does chocolate taste worse now?

11:15 What’s actually in your chocolate?

17:34 Who pays the price for cheap chocolate?

20:01 Is good chocolate becoming a luxury?

25:37 What’s the hidden cost of convenience?

31:21 Have we learned to like worse chocolate?

33:23 Why this is about more than chocolate

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Today we’re bringing you an episode of the Vox daily news podcast Today, Explained. It’s a show that’s about the biggest stories of the day, and – like The Gray Area – it tries to make sense of what those stories tell us about our culture and our world.

This episode starts with a simple question: Was populism worth it?This week, voters delivered a sweeping rebuke to Trump and the Republican party, handing Democrats control of the House and Senate. So this is a good moment to take stock: How did Trump’s brand of politics change America? What has populism actually achieved, who are its new proponents, and are we ever going back?

Host: Noel King, co-host and editorial director, Today, Explained

Guests: Jonathan Chait, staff writer, The Atlantic and Eric Levitz, senior correspondent, Vox

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Silicon Valley says it can build better weapons, faster and cheaper than traditional defense contractors. But what happens when the companies making those weapons also get a say in how they’re used?

In today’s episode, Vox reporter and producer Miles Bryan talks with long-time national security journalist Sharon Weinberger, author of Valley of Death: How Big Tech Is Fueling the Future of War. The book traces Silicon Valley’s deep ties to the military and its return to the weapons business through companies like Palantir, SpaceX, and Anduril. Sharon says this raises troubling questions of how private funding gives tech founders greater control over military technology, and whether their promises of innovation justify risks to accountability.

In this episode, Miles and Sharon explore the surprising CIA contract that helped keep Steve Jobs’s company afloat, how “tech companies” sell their visions to the Pentagon, if their innovations live up to the hype, and whether tech’s disruption of the defense industry could leave us with a more powerful version of the same old system.

Host: Miles Bryan, Vox Reporter and Producer

Guest: Sharon Weinberger, author of Valley of Death: How Big Tech Is Fueling the Future of War

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What does the country lose when one generation refuses to yield power?

In this episode, Vox host Jonquilyn Hill talks with Idrees Kahloon, staff writer at the Atlantic, about why he believes America has become a gerontocracy – a government whose rulers are older than the rest of the population. There’s the age of political leaders in Congress and the White House. And there’s also the economic impact of having Americans over the age of 55 holding nearly three-quarters of the nation's wealth.

Jonquilyn and Idrees examine how this demographic and economic shift came to pass over the last several decades. They get into the political taboo over reforming Social Security and Medicare, the impact of housing market restrictions and zoning on younger home buyers, and the ways that government spending heavily favors older voters.

Guest Host: Jonquilyn Hill, host of Explain It To Me

Guest: Idrees Kahloon, Staff writer, The Atlantic

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What is happening behind the scenes of America’s largest AI companies? How could the squabbles, ideologies, and goals of their CEOs and engineers shape our future?

In today’s episode, guest host Christine Emba sits down with technology journalist Kevin Roose to discuss his new book, The AGI Chronicles: The Inside Story of the Race to Create an Artificial Superintelligence. The book offers a behind-the-scenes look at the engineers and tech leaders competing to build artificial superintelligence. The race has sparked a massive data center boom and made a handful of people some of the most powerful decision-makers on Earth.

Christine and Kevin explore the rivalries between frontier labs like OpenAI, Anthropic, and Google DeepMind, the philosophical roots of "p(doom)" and AI safety, and whether recursive self-improvement could push superintelligence beyond human control sooner than we think.

Host: Christine Emba, columnist and author

Guest: Kevin Roose, journalist and author of The AGI Chronicles: The Inside Story of the Race to Create an Artificial Superintelligence

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What does it mean to have a good life when so much feels wrong?

In this episode of The Gray Area, guest host Jonquilyn Hill speaks with Vox journalist Rachel Wilkerson Miller about her forthcoming book, The Nice Life. Rachel argues that even when we feel anxious or unsettled, we can build a satisfying life through curiosity, friendship, creativity, and generosity. Jonquilyn and Rachel explore how to find joy in difficult times, take pleasure in ordinary things, and share that pleasure with others.

Guest Host: Jonquilyn Hill, host of Explain It To Me

Guest: Rachel Miller, Vox Senior Even Better & Lifestyle Editor

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Can prediction markets serve a purpose beyond gambling?

In today’s episode, guest host Miles Bryan speaks with professor Finn Brunton in a conversation based on his recent Harper’s article, “The Chaos Machine: Prediction Markets and the Triumph of Crypto-Anarchy.” The two explore alternative visions for prediction markets: as tools for gathering collective knowledge, or as a way to undermine the institutions we rely on. They discuss whether putting money on the line brings us closer to the truth, how betting can create incentives to manipulate events, and what we risk when more of our shared reality becomes something to wager on.

Host: Miles Bryan, Vox Senior Producer and Reporter

Guest: Finn Brunton, Professor at the University of California, Davis

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What happens to a society when its members become increasingly wary of one another, and relationships break down based on gender lines?

In today’s episode, guest host Christine Emba speaks with pollster and writer Dan Cox about his new book Generation Uncoupled: America's New Gender Divide and the Crisis of Human Connection. They consider how and why men and women in America are growing apart, rising safety concerns among young women, and the widening political divide on gender lines.

Host: Christine Emba, columnist and author

Guest: Dan Cox, Director of the Survey Center on American Life at the American Enterprise Institute and author of Generation Uncoupled.

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Is there a humane way for the state to kill someone? 

Guest host Miles Bryan sits down with New York Times Magazine writer and ProPublica reporter Pamela Colloff to pull back the curtain on critical flaws in America's approach to the death penalty. From the tragedy of wrongful convictions to the profound impact capital punishment  has on victims' families, can the death penalty ever truly be justified?

Drawing on decades of reporting and a new book, Catch the Devil⁠, Colloff examines the reality of executions in states like Florida, the prevalence of unreliable jailhouse informants, and why a system built on human judgment can never be infallible.
Guest Host: Miles Bryan, Vox Senior Producer and Reporter

Guest: Pamela Colloff, author of Catch the Devil

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