3 things you can do today to help you to be a more powerful, more loving, greater parent. Help your child know that they're special. They belong. Tell your kids it's OK if you make a mistake. Whatever our kids hear the most, whatever our children get told the most is what they're going to believe the most. Ask yourself: *What would happen to your child if they really believe that they have a purpose, that they were meant for something great, that they could do something? *Does your child know that they belong? *Do your kids know that they can make a mistake without being guilted and shamed? Behavior that is rewarded gets repeated.