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Ever wondered whether a tongue tie release is really the fix everyone says it is — or why some babies seem to struggle even after the procedure? In this week’s episode of Doula Talk, Deb is joined by Carissa Guiley, a speech-language pathologist and IBCLC, to unpack the truth about therapeutic readiness and why slowing down before a frenectomy can make all the difference.

Together, they explore how nervous system regulation, body tension, and oral reflex development shape feeding — and why rushing straight to surgery sometimes backfires. You’ll learn what true readiness looks like, how to build the right care team, and why supporting the whole baby leads to calmer parents, better feeding, and happier little humans.

If you’ve ever felt pressured to “fix” feeding fast — or wondered why the latch still isn’t right — this episode will bring clarity, compassion, and a whole lot of nervous-system soothing.

Key Takeaways:

• A tongue tie release is not a magic wand — preparation matters just as much as the procedure
• Babies with dysregulation or body tension often need therapy and bodywork first
• Feeding gets harder temporarily after release — readiness prevents setbacks
• A knowledgeable, collaborative team makes all the difference
• This is not an emergency — slow, steady, supported care wins

Guest: Carissa Guiley, MS, CCC-SLP, IBCLC

Founder of Nourish Therapy and The Nourish & Grow Collective

Supporting families and professionals in holistic, evidence-based infant feeding care

Find Carissa at nourishfeedingtherapy.com and on Instagram @nourish_feedingtherapy

Resources Mentioned:

• Chrysalis Oral Facial Professional Directory: Search for TOTS Training® Professionals in your area.
• International Consortium of Ankylofrenula Professionals: Find a Tongue-Tie Professional.
• Doula Deb’s First Year Support Program: Ongoing, compassionate guidance for families navigating feeding, sleep, and early parenthood
• Rooted Rest Sleep Course: Gentle, attachment-centered foundations for better sleep

If you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure where to start… you don’t have to do this alone.

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Disclaimer:
The content in this podcast is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider for personalized advice and information.