The MaxLife Podcast with Ben Laws

#49: Selective Ambition — Build a Life by Values, Not Vanity with Charlotte Grimmel


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Entrepreneurs are told to want more. Charlotte (The Mind Friend) challenges that narrative with Selective Ambition — the art of pursuing goals rooted in values, not vanity. Learn the 3 questions that reveal what truly drives you, how intentional constraints protect freedom, and why discomfort is a feature, not a flaw. This episode of MaxLife is a masterclass in designing success that feels good on the inside — not just the outside.


Guest Bio

Charlotte is a psychologist-turned-business coach who helps founders, coaches, and creatives build freedom-first businesses rooted in clarity, self-trust, and sustainable growth. Through her brand The Mind Friend, she blends grounded psychology with high-performance strategy to help her clients rewire internal blocks, show up fully, and scale without burning out or selling out. 

Originally from Switzerland, Charlotte once moved to a remote island in the South Pacific — and has since built a location-independent business that reflects the life she actually wants to live. She’s a former competitive athlete, certified yoga teacher, and divemaster — now splitting her time between Cape Town and Europe, helping entrepreneurs grow businesses that are mentally sustainable and strategically sound.

Instagram: @themindfriend

Substack (Selectively Ambitious): https://themindfriend.substack.com/

Self-sabotage course: https://themindfriend.net/ssc

1:1 Coaching Application: https://3nwicvkwnfe.typeform.com/to/hINLmOTb

 

Resources & Mentions

Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat: Mastering the Elements of Good Cooking by Samin Nosrat

Substack (Selectively Ambitious): https://themindfriend.substack.com/

Self-sabotage course: https://themindfriend.net/ssc

1:1 Coaching Application: https://3nwicvkwnfe.typeform.com/to/hINLmOTb


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