Anonymous is looking for advise from the 5 nation.
"You didn’t hear it from me, but…
I just got engaged to my boyfriend of 3 years and we love each other so much. However, I am a chef and I just got an opportunity to work abroad on yachts for 12 months.
But my partner's past trauma regarding long distance relationships is getting the best of him, so much that he is considering ending the engagement.
I feel like I am stuck between having to choose between love or my career. Do I let the opportunity go and possibly never get such a chance again, or go with my passion and possibly lose the love of my life"