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Insecurity isn’t a flaw—it’s information. In this episode of Own Your Shift with Kim, Kim gets personal about how she transformed years of hidden insecurity into authentic confidence. She shares five real-life tools to help you reframe the parts of you you’ve been taught to hide—and instead lead with them. If you’ve ever performed your confidence, chased approval, or shrunk yourself to fit in… this is the conversation you’ve been waiting for.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
Kim’s personal story of performing confidence while silently battling insecurity
How seeking approval kept her stuck—even when things looked good on the outside
The “aha” moment that helped her stop fixing herself for others
Why your quirks may actually be your superpowers
What happens when you stop dimming yourself to be accepted
Name It
Say your insecurity out loud. Naming breaks the shame.
Trace the Root
Identify where the belief came from. What planted it?
Reframe the Narrative
Fill in the blank: My [quirk] makes me [strength].
Use It to Connect
Your authenticity makes other people feel safe in theirs.
Act Anyway
Don’t wait to be fearless—take the fear with you and move.
“When you’re constantly performing, you never fully belong. Not even to yourself.”
“What if the thing you always thought was wrong with you is actually the thing that makes you magnetic?”
“Insecurities don’t disqualify you—they prepare you to walk with compassion and courage.”
DM Kim on Instagram @ownyourshift_kim and let her know what part of this episode hit home for you.
By Kim Mayberry
Insecurity isn’t a flaw—it’s information. In this episode of Own Your Shift with Kim, Kim gets personal about how she transformed years of hidden insecurity into authentic confidence. She shares five real-life tools to help you reframe the parts of you you’ve been taught to hide—and instead lead with them. If you’ve ever performed your confidence, chased approval, or shrunk yourself to fit in… this is the conversation you’ve been waiting for.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
Kim’s personal story of performing confidence while silently battling insecurity
How seeking approval kept her stuck—even when things looked good on the outside
The “aha” moment that helped her stop fixing herself for others
Why your quirks may actually be your superpowers
What happens when you stop dimming yourself to be accepted
Name It
Say your insecurity out loud. Naming breaks the shame.
Trace the Root
Identify where the belief came from. What planted it?
Reframe the Narrative
Fill in the blank: My [quirk] makes me [strength].
Use It to Connect
Your authenticity makes other people feel safe in theirs.
Act Anyway
Don’t wait to be fearless—take the fear with you and move.
“When you’re constantly performing, you never fully belong. Not even to yourself.”
“What if the thing you always thought was wrong with you is actually the thing that makes you magnetic?”
“Insecurities don’t disqualify you—they prepare you to walk with compassion and courage.”
DM Kim on Instagram @ownyourshift_kim and let her know what part of this episode hit home for you.