In the fifth episode of So You Think You Can Date, I talk with my dear friend Marla Taviano about *not* dating.

Connect with Marla Taviano

IG: @marlataviano and @whitegirllearning

Substack: writing wholefarted

Twitter: @marlataviano

Website: ⁠itsmemarla.com

Buy Marla's Books

unbelieve

jaded

whole

please cut up my poems

poem art therapy

what makes you fart

Resources 

Codependent No More by Melody Beattie

You Could Make This Place Beautiful by Maggie Smith

Awake by Jen Hatmaker

Conversations with Toni Morrison

⁠“Coming Alive” Substack⁠

⁠Coming of Age and Coming Out: Stories of Repressed and Reclaimed Sexual Desire⁠ by Nicki Pappas - Pending release June 2025. With your preorder purchase, you will receive a free download of the “Come Alive” guide in your inbox!

Connect with Nicki Pappas 

Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠nickipappas.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 

IG: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@broadeningthenarrative⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  

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