As a new mom, I have experienced an outpouring of love and kindness, even from complete strangers. But there are, of course, those select few who just don’t have the whole “tact” thing down yet. Here are a few things one simply must never say to a new mom — unless you want her to burst in to tears: 1. “You know what worked for my kid ...” No, I do not know what worked for your kid, and, frankly, I don’t care. My kid is not your kid. Thanks, but no thanks. 2.