In this follow-up to the popular “Raising the Bar” episode, Chip and Glyn Ann Townsend return to unpack a subtle but powerful concept: the difference between giving your best effort and achieving the best performance.

Together, they dive into how constant comparison can chip away at a child’s confidence, create burnout, and stunt long-term growth—especially in high-expectation environments like martial arts. Instead, they offer a better way: teaching students to take pride in giving their best, regardless of outcome.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why comparison is the thief of joy (especially for kids)

How to shift focus from external validation to internal effort

Practical ways to encourage progress, not perfection

How this mindset shift builds stronger, more resilient students

Whether you're a parent, instructor, or martial arts school owner, this conversation is packed with insight and strategies to help the next generation rise to the challenge—with heart, hustle, and healthy perspective.